How to check Facebook filtered messages and message requests

If you enter competitions on Facebook, you should be checking your message inbox (or Messenger app) regularly in case you get a winning notification! But it’s not as straightforward as it seems – there are also Message Requests and Filtered Messages to check.

A Facebook page (company) can only message a fan directly if they have commented on their page – OR they can message if the fan has previously sent a message. Sometimes though, a notification about a competition you’ve won will come from a page admin, who has to use their personal account to send that message – and it may well go to your Filtered Messages folder!

Find your messages on

Go to and click the speech bubble icon at the top of your browser window to get to your messages – it shows Recent by default, but you can click the Message Requests tab (this will show a number in brackets if you have unread messages). Click to view a request and at the bottom you can Accept or Decline it.

Scroll right down to the bottom of all your Message Requests and you should see a link to see Filtered Requests (see screenshot below) – if you have any! You can Reply to or Delete a Filtered message.

Find your messages on

If you click See All in Messenger from Facebook, or go directly to, your inbox has a slightly different format. Click the settings icon in the top left of your browser and choose Message Requests. Scroll down past all the message requests and you can click to see filtered requests.

Find your messages using the Messenger app

To find your Message Requests on mobile, open Messenger and tap the People icon at the bottom (2 people), then on the next screen tap the Add Contacts icon (person with plus sign). Tap Requests at the top to see your Message Requests – if you have have no new message requests, you won’t see this as an option on the screen!

Scroll down past all your requests and you’ll see the Filtered Messages heading (if you have any!). Tap to Show all.

Tap Accept to move the message to your regular inbox. Tap Decline to delete it.

If you pick up an old winning message and find you’ve missed the claim date for your prize (or there was no claim date!) don’t despair. Send a polite message back to the promoter explaining that you didn’t know about the Filtered Messages folder – they may be sympathetic!

If it’s a UK promotion you could also point out that the Advertising Standards Authority recommends that only contacting a winner once is NOT sufficient, and more attempts should be made if there’s no response (read more on this here).

Don’t forget to check your message requests on Twitter and Instagram too!

If you found this blog post helpful, why not download my free PDF A Comper’s Guide to Facebook, or watch my Beginners Guide to Facebook on YouTube?

What’s the most exciting message you’ve found in your hidden Facebook folder? Tell me in the comments!

7 Responses

  1. Malak says:

    I cant find ignore message any more when i updaded the messenger . I need it back pelase tell how or where . Version 222.0.0.

  2. Bre says:

    This is what worked for me on android April 2019: click on the people icon in the middle on the bottom. Click on the add person icon on the top right corner then click on requests.

  3. Joan collier says:

    You are the winner of our eighth day of Christmas prize – please email to claim your prize. Well done…. found after reading this x

  4. lorraine kirk says:

    Thank you for this info Di, I just found a winning email for a pin badge that had been sent to my filtered messages 🙂

  5. John Russell says:

    thanks for that info on receiving messages. I have just sorted it.

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